I’ve been there too

Episode 15: Brave Enough to Speak: A 10-Year-Old's Journey Through Big Feelings

What does it feel like to be 10 years old and struggling with pain so big it feels impossible to carry? In this deeply personal episode, Treavor sits down with his daughter, Cozette, for a tender and age-appropriate conversation about her journey through anxiety, self-harm, and thoughts of not wanting to be here.
With honesty, vulnerability, and courage beyond her years, Cozette opens up about what helped her start healing, what she wishes other kids knew, and how parents can better support children walking through emotional pain.
This episode is not graphic, but it is real. It's a conversation filled with love, growth, and hope - for kids who feel alone, and for the parents doing their best to show up. 
Tune in for a brave story about big feelings, safe spaces, and the healing power of being heard.
 
Support for Kids and TeensYour Life Your Voice (Boys Town)
 Call 1-800-448-3000 or text VOICE to 20121
yourlifeyourvoice.orgA hotline specifically for kids, teens, and young adults who are feeling overwhelmed, anxious, sad, or unsafe.The Trevor Project (LGBTQ+ Youth Support)Call 1-866-488-7386 or text START to 678678thetrevorproject.orgCrisis support and counseling for LGBTQ+ youth, available 24/7.⸻Resources for ParentsChild Mind Institutechildmind.orgResources and articles on childhood mental health, including how to talk to kids about self-harm, depression, and anxiety.The National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI)HelpLine: 1-800-950-NAMI (6264)nami.orgResources for families navigating mental health challenges. Offers guidance, education, and community support groups.⸻For Understanding Self-Harm in ChildrenSelf-Injury Outreach & Supportsioutreach.orgEducational tools for understanding and supporting those who struggle with self-harm, especially among adolescents.

Episode 14: From Shame to Safety: Creating Emotional Security in Marriage

In this episode, Treavor and Cassidy dive deep into the emotional roots of shame, how it shows up in relationships, and how they've worked together to build a marriage where honest, vulnerability, and healing are safe. They discuss their individual experiences with shame - how it impacted their trust, intimacy, and communication - and the daily work it takes to create a relationship where neither partner has to hide.

Episode 13: Parenting Through Pain - Raising Kids While Healing Ourselves

In this episode, Cassidy and I open up about the raw, unfiltered reality of parenting while navigating our own healing journeys. From dealing with childhood trauma to supporting kids who are struggling emotionally, we share the lessons, the missteps, and the breakthroughs we’ve had as individuals and as a couple. This conversation is about showing up imperfectly—but with love, accountability, and an unshakable commitment to doing better than what we were shown growing up.
 
If you’re a parent who feels like you’re learning how to raise your kids and yourself at the same time—this one’s for you.

Episode 12: When Masculinity Meets Vulnerability

Men have been taught for generations to bury pain, to “man up,” to pretend.But what happens when that silence becomes a death sentence?In this deeply personal and unfiltered episode, I walk through my journey from emotional isolation to healing — and why choosing vulnerability over silence didn’t just change my life, it saved it.If you’re tired of carrying it all alone… if you’re ready to rewrite what strength really looks like… this is your invitation to heal out loud.

Episode 11: Breaking the Stigma - What Mental Health Really Looks Like for Fathers and Veterans

In this deeply personal episode, I open up about the silent battles so many of us fight behind closed doors, especially as fathers, veterans, and men who've been told to "just thought it out". I talk about the weight of wearing the mask, the pressure to be everything to everyone, and the moment I finally broke the silence and chose healing over hiding. Whether you're a dad trying to stay strong for your kids, a service member / Veteran navigating life, or someone quietly wrestling with depression or anxiety - this one is for you. I share my journey through darkness, guilt, and growth, and offer a raw reminder that strength isn't in silence - it's in honesty, vulnerability, and the courage to keep showing up.You are not alone in this fight.

Episode 10: Strength in the Struggle - Prioritizing Your Physical Health

In the 10th episode, Cassidy and I sit down for an honest, vulnerable conversation about how hard it can be to care for your body when your mind feels heavy. We dive into what it looks like to start making your physical health a priority when you're battling anxiety, depression, self-doubt, or feeling unworthy of love. Together, we share actual, practical steps from our journey and remind you that your worth isn't tied to how productive you are or how "put together" you seem. You are worthy of love, healing, and strength simply because you exist. This episode is about finding hope, taking small steps, and learning to believe that you deserve to feel good in your body and mind.

Episode 9: I've Been There Too with Cassidy Dascomb

In this episode, I sit down with my wife, Cassidy for an honest and powerful conversation about her story. She opens up about losing her mom to cancer at a young age, navigating an unhealthy and abusive first marriage, and the impact those experiences had on her life. We also discuss the tools and practices that helped her heal, grow, and rebuild. This is a real look at resilience, pain, and personal transformation. 

Episode 8: I've Been There Too with Gabe Davis

In this episode, I sit down with my great friend Gabe Davis as he opens up about his journey through some incredibly challenging seasons of life. Gabe shares the raw truth about his mental health struggles while navigating a toxic relationship, and how those battles followed him even into deployment. Together, we dive deep into the emotional toll, the coping mechanisms he developed while overseas, and how he's learned to process pain, grow stronger, and keep pushing forward. This conversation is real, honest, and a reminder that healing is possible even in the darkest places. I was truly honored to have Gabe join me for this conversation.

Episode 7: More Than the Mind - The Spiritual Side of Healing

For the last 10 years, I have completely distanced myself from spirituality. After being part of a religion earlier in life, I became reluctant—skeptical even—of anything beyond what I could see and understand. But this past year, I watched my wife, Cassidy, embark on her spiritual journey, and despite her experiences, I wasn’t ready to follow.
In this episode, Cassidy joins me to share her perspective on my resistance to spirituality and what it was like for her to witness my hesitation. I also share an experience that completely shifted my perspective—my meeting with a medium named Dani Lama. What I thought would be just another conversation turned into something that fundamentally changed the way I see life, healing, and connection.
Spirituality has made a lasting impact on my mental health, bringing me peace in ways I never expected. Whether you’ve struggled with belief, walked away from faith, or are just curious about the role spirituality can play in healing, this episode is an honest look at what happens when you open yourself up to something greater.

Episode 6: Princeton's Story - Five Days That Changed Everything

In this deeply personal and emotional episode, I share the story of my son, Princeton-his birth, his fight, and the five days he spent battling for his life. Born premature, Princeton showed more strength in his short time here on earth than I ever could have imagined. He was a fighter. But despite his fight, I had to face a reality no parent should ever endure- losing a child.
For years, I buried my grief, ignoring the pain of his loss. I suppressed the heartbreak, thinking I had to be strong and continue forward. But grief doesn't disappear-it lingers, shaping who we become.
This episode isn't just about loss; it's about love, resilience, and the silent battles we carry. It's about how Princeton's short life changed mine forever. And it's about the power of finally facing the pain we try so hard to ignore.
If you've ever experienced loss, if you've ever held in grief, or if you've ever wondered how to keep moving forward when life breaks you- I've been there too.